kusus kawin

esok aku g kusus kawin..

ngan sape??

sowang jek..uddi dh amik dh.. :-<

takut arr....

dia ada tnya pe pe x...

aduii...lama dh basic2 nikah ni aku xbaca

last rasa cam form 5 dlu jek..

hahaha...

erkkk tunggu je la esok...

sekejap nye masa blalu...nih dh bulan 8..aduiii la..

oh ye..lusa knduri senior aku

yg paling close.. along..huhu

Selamat Pengantin Baru.. Moga bahagia slalu...muahhh...

aku g kenduri g 1..pas raya..huhu..

bzzz....iyolahh..

huhu..

bz ket lately...

keja baruku ni kan lain ket dr sebelum ni..

aku dh penah cter ke ekk...hmmm gni..

kalo sebelum-sebelum ni..

aku keja ngan company IT,

IT hardware, IT software, n yg last pon IT software..

hah yg ni lari byk...syarikat kontraktor..major construction...

wat jalan..wat building..renovation... kolam kilang kelapa sawit,kolam air twr.. pembetungan..bla2..

hahaha...lain kan...ntah nape ekk..aku enjoy keja neh..

rasa cam kena ngn jiwa aku..

actually... aku kenal bos company ni dh lama

nak kata beso idak le..kecik jekk..

tp pojek yg dpt alhamdulillah..hehe...

sebelum2 ni..ada gak la tolong bos ni..dolu2..

masa kerani dia benti..waktu cuti aku dtg cni tolong dia...

so xda la kekok sgt...

cuma kali ni jobscope tuh idak le dok opis ngadap keja

kerani semata...(sebab aku demand xmo gaji rendah..

bior jobscope luas asal gaji manyak ket..haha sukati)

selain dr setelkan tender2..dptkn sebutharga..carik suplier..order..

aku kena g site..utk site survey...kena g site untuk pantau progress projek

kena liase ngan pegawai2 kat tempat tuh..

macam sekarang..tengah ongoing beberapa projek..

yg paling penting skang pojek kat Universiti Teknologi Petronas, Tronoh...

UTP ni..renovation work.. selain keja2 tukang2..furniture..divider..electrical..

yg best ada le relate ngn IT..

sbb ada networking wired n wireless kna wat situ..huhu

1st time kompeni ni dpt pojek situ..

so bos aku nak wat yg the best le gtu..

thats why i like my bos ni..

walopon jaga gak budget2 tp wat keja kena tip top..

sebab tuh once dpt tangkap satu pojek ngn satu2 agensi tuh

derang nak kasik g..

n yg penting xsuka nak sub2 kat kontraktor lain sgt

esp cha ya nun alif..cam kebanyakan org len buat... kat melayu xpa..

nape aku rasa suka ekk keja kat cni..

penat..memang penat... walopon renovation kat utp tuh dlm bangunan

sejuk jek pon dlm tuh

tp aku kena ke hulu ke hilir gak jupe org tuh org ni..

arrange itu ini..

panas la plak skang ni kan..terik...yah penat..tp kepuasan...

n yg penting kat cni.. xde politik opis sgt..

nape xde..sebab..pekerja kat opis ni aku, QS en fauzi, my bos en zizan..

3orang jek...erkk akak cleaner sowang..

yg lain smua pekerja kontrak..

hahahahaha... so xbyk songeh...n xda yg dengki2..ahhhh legaaaaa...

alhamdulillah...kat cni aku nk blajar manyak menda..

mana tau kan..... :->

aku selalu doakan bos aku ni murah rezki...

dia pon xkedekut..dr dlu g..

moga lebih bjaya di masa hadapan..sian gak tngok dia sesorang ke hulu kehilir

n skang aku lak gtu..heh...

erkk ekceli ada cter ket psl dia neh..ahakzz...

xpe len kali arr cter...huhuhuhuhu...tata titu titi...

DID I MARRY THE RIGHT PERSON?

Dear ALL, This is a very good article.
Those who are still single may learn something from here...
Those who are already married may take it
as a guideline to improve your marriage & relationship ....
DID I MARRY THE RIGHT PERSON?

During one of our seminars,
a woman asked a common question.
She said, "How do I know if I married the right person?"
I noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so I said,
"It depends. Is that your husband?" In all seriousness, she answered "How do you know?"
Let me answer this question because the chances
are good that it's weighing on your mind.
Here's the answer.

EVERY relationship has a cycle.
In the beginning, you fell in love with your spouse / partner .
You anticipated their call, wanted their touch,
and liked their idiosyncrasies (unconventional behavior/habit).
Falling in love with your spouse wasn't hard.
In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn't have to DO anything.

That's why it's called "falling" in love...
Because it's happening TO YOU.
People in love sometimes say, "I was swept of my feet."
Think about the imagery of that __expression.
It implies that you were just standing there;
doing nothing, and then something came along and happened TO YOU.
Falling in love is easy.
It's a passive and spontaneous experience.

But after a few years of marriage,
the euphoria (excitement) of love fades.
It's the natural cycle of EVERY relationship.
Slowly but surely,
phone calls become a bother (if they come at all),
touch is not always welcome (when it happens),
and your spouse's idiosyncrasies,
instead of being cute, drive you nuts.
The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship,
but if you think about your marriage,
you will notice a dramatic difference
between the initial stage when you were in love
and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.
At this point, you and/or your spouse might start asking,
"Did I marry the right person?"

And as you and your spouse reflect on the euphoria
of the love you once had,
you may begin to desire that experience with someone else. This is when marriages breakdown.
People blame their spouse for their unhappiness
and look outside their marriage for fulfillment.
Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes.
Infidelity is the most obvious.

But sometimes people turn to work,
a hobby, a friendship, excessive TV,
or abusive substances.
But the answer to this dilemma
does NOT lie outside your marriage. It lies within it. I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else.
You could. And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better.
But you'd be in the same situation a few years later.
Because (listen carefully to this):
THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN MARRIAGE
IS NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON;
IT'S LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU FOUND.

SUSTAINING love is not a passive
or spontaneous experience.
It'll NEVER just happen to you.
You can't "find" LASTING love.
You have to "make" it day in and day out.
That's why we have the __expression "the labor of love."
Because it takes time, effort, and energy.
And most importantly, it takes WISDOM.
You have to know WHAT TO DO
to make your marriage work.
Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery.
There are specific things you can do
(with or without your spouse)
to succeed with your marriage.
Just as there are physical laws
of the universe (such as gravity),
there are also laws for relationships.

Just as the right diet and exercise program
makes you physically stronger,
certain habits in your relationship
WILL make your marriage stronger. It's a direct cause and effect.
If you know and apply the laws,
the results are predictable. .. you can "make" love.
Love in marriage is indeed a "decision".. .
Not just a feeling.

Remember this always:
"God determines who walks into your life.
It is up to you to decide who you let walk away,
who you let stay, and who you refuse to let go."